Now this isn’t something that you need to say, it should just come across in how you act.I would say focus on being fun and lighthearted and enjoying the relationship for exactly what it is.Sometimes I’m okay with how things are, but other times I get really angry, especially when my friends get on my case about it.Our relationship is starting to suffer now because even though I say I’m fine with how things are, deep down this is really bothering me and I feel really hurt by the fact that even though I am his ‘girlfriend,’ he won’t acknowledge me in that way.If a store was giving you free stuff, would you say ‘no please, let me pay you for it’? Now, with that said, that does not necessarily mean that there’s no chance of you becoming his girlfriend.There are some things you can do (mostly by just shifting your perspective) that can help tremendously. For starters, I have seen a lot of women get caught up on this issue and as a result, they bring it up more and more, smothering every ounce of joy from the relationship.Why would the guy want to deepen a relationship when it doesn’t feel good and seems to only be getting worse?My recommendation is to avoid badgering him about the topic.
But dressing up and going to red carpets is a fantasy as well. To stay normal you need to know its pretend,' she theorised.At that point the relationship stops being fun and full of happiness and starts becoming more like a battle of wills.And from a guy’s perspective, when a relationship gets like this, it becomes much less likely for a guy to want to stay.But beyond that, I would especially recommend that you keep your options open and you continue keeping up with all your other social activities that do not involve him: seeing your friends, attending any functions you like to go to, etc.It is important that you keep your time and company only as available as he is willing to be – match your level of commitment to his so that you are not left hanging. If you like the relationship for exactly what and where it is, then stay.Lorraine mentioned to the actress - who is married to Daniel Craig - that she happens to have James Bond as a husband.