You aren't picking them up in a bar or at a Starbucks. I've been pleasantly surprised at how well I've been received doing it that way, and how good the service is.
I'm not saying I get laid more that way, but it does lighten things up.
My goal is to fuck at least one girl from every country in the world. I am so lucky to have a huge selection of parlors and providers.
I went off an on until I went through a divorce and than stopped for ten to twelve years no money my ex had it all. 95% are Korean, with a few Vietnamese Thais and girls that grew up in Guam ,,,,,its an addiction not sure I could stop if I wanted to which I don't...I get tired of same I just stop going to that spot for a 6 months or so60. Just too frustrated with older married life, with gal that just won't do anything new or adventurous. Been doing this for about a dozen years here in south Florida.
Yes, you might care, might treat them well, might even love. It's not a bad thing, per say, but don't count it as a notch on your guitar. Soon found out I could take care of both problems in one place! The good thing about being older is that you don't worry too much about not having six-pack abs or a 10" johnson, so it's just about having fun and making the girl's day a bit brighter.
All of these are fine, but don't forget the bottom line of all this. It's not that stylish, and your family doesn't know about it, do they? It's a shadow activity, Now, maybe you can actually find somebody, start a real relationship with one of these women (not drinks and dinner blah blah), see where it goes. That's why I rarely haggle about the tip, and in most cases give it to the provider before the session has even started.
I picked it back up maybe three or four years after catching the posts on BP. In my younger years it was more about getting off now it is different hard to explain but I enjoy the touch of someone else and the occasional tease. It gets dull doing the same old thing for the last 40 years. Main reason initially was that, being a tit man with a small-chested wife, I wanted to play with some C's and D's, and also get a 'strange' The only difference between bigmac48 and me is our age.
I am 63 and still go regularly.64 and only discovered the hobby 2 years ago. Well you have to have time and money, when I was younger, I was less willing to consider this entertainment for those and other reasons67 and been in this hobby for 4 years. I started last year at 45 but the reason is exactly the same as his: My wife has and had health issues and our encounters are few and far in between. Have been visiting off and on for maybe over 40 years, first before married and unwilling to put up with the repercussions of the bar scene, later as home availability has devolved to nothing.
Feel less judgemental, more accepting of lifestyle, personal needs, simply providing a service for a fee. What's disappointing to me is that nowadays it is hard to find a decent white girl doing this, although there are some that advertise, and there are no more massage parlors with white girls, which used to exist. The reason I started going was that the girl I was seeing would have me strip, she'd remove her top and let me play with/kiss/suck on her breasts/nipples, but she would do nothing but run her fingers thru my chest hair.