Her paper documents how AAWE leadership traits are very different from white women’s.
TOO FAST Maybe you're divorced, newly separated, or have been single forever.You can prepare a lovely Italian meal for a guy, and all of a sudden he brings up the fact his ex made the best lasagna of all time." GF #2: "Men in their fifties can be cynical, especially if they were in a bad marriage.They talk about how awful their ex-wives are, and how much money they had to give them." GF #3: "Getting involved with a guy who's still reeling from his divorce can sometimes feel like he's having an affair, except that the 'other woman' isn't a woman, it's his anger." My Advice: Dump the baggage, dude.And when you've accrued a decent amount of courtship hours, then you can bang away.TOO FURIOUS Ok, so you're livid at your ex, or fuming about the divorce, or bitter you're still on after all these years. We get your circumstances might suck, but don't let it consume you.This creates a conflict with many white men, especially those from my generation (age 47) or older.