I’m black or brown, depending on who you ask, and I mainly date white guys.
I guess the lesson here is to have a more thorough screening process, maybe a set of questions that a guy has to answer via Whats App before you agree to go for a drink with him.
I went on a disastrous first date recently with a guy I met on Tinder. Anything remotely race-related, he will want your perspective and expect you to have insight. Unless you’re sucking each others’ faces off, people won’t guess. Then you might also be interested in: Things You Only Know If You're A Jewish Girl Dating Online Tinder Is Dead: How Has The App Gone From Hero To Zero In Just Six Months?
Let’s call him Adam (that’s his real name but London is a big place, I’m sure he’ll be fine). Which is a bit annoying, but he just wants to make sure he’s not just looking at a situation from a position of white privilege, which is a good thing, right? They see a white man and a woman of colour walking down the street and no matter what the body language, people will act surprised when they find out they’re together.
Here’s a little bit: Focusing on looks for long term partnership is LAZY and LOW CLASS.
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I grew up in a small town in the 90's, where I was the only non-white girl in my class at school and my skin colour was a curiosity rather than a threat.