If you need to request time off he himself can do so without any money coming out of your pocket. He was clearly trying to charm me, sending me a video of that titanic song and stuff. This man claims he is a doctor with the UN in Afghanistan. Plans on retiring when he is done in 15 months, and opening a hospital.
I didn't let him get to the point of asking me for money.
I love his "tough love" - because sometimes it's hard to see how much power we actually have, and because so many "gurus" are afraid to say the truth about men and relationships.
He claimed that his wife died from polycystic kidney disease 8 years ago and he was ready to move on. Said he was from Washington DC, but lives in Baltimore, MD. His English was broken and he seemed confused by situations happening in the US (such as insurance stuff, in regards to hospitals). He had way too much time to spend on Twitter for being a military doctor dealing with a suicide bomber a couple of days ago.
I'll tell you ladies he's really good at what he says and how he makes you feel.
If he asks you to file for vacation time and tell them you were his fiancé, don't do it as it will cost you money and it all goes to his pocket. So this man sent me a couple of DM's on Twitter before I finally responded.
Why would an orthopaedic surgeon be contacting me so far away. I told him my situation and it was impossible and why would he be asking me for help when you're a doctor. He told me because of being in the UK Bank of America closed his account and he doesn't have access to it.
I work for a bank and I know that if you have an account with us you can definitely call and tell them your situation and they will not freeze your account.
He was working for the united nations as an orthapedic surgeon which I thought was a bit of a story but I went along with it.